
This free live 90-minute webinar helps you reduce tension, release guilt, and rebuild trust with your adult child — without fixing, controlling, or walking on eggshells.
Tuesday, March 3rd @ 7pm EST
This free live 90-minute webinar helps you reduce tension, release guilt, and rebuild trust with your adult child — without fixing, controlling, or walking on eggshells.
Tuesday, March 3rd @ 7pm EST

The 3 keys to rebuild trust with your adult child
Simple phrases that defuse conflict instead of escalating it
The 7 non-negotiables that change everything
How to release expectations that quietly create distance
How to shift from parent-child tension to adult-to-adult respect
These are practical tools you can start using immediately.
“I didn’t realize how much of my stress came from trying to manage my adult child instead of relating to them. This webinar completely changed how I show up — and our conversations are already calmer.”

“Catherine explains things in a way that feels safe and practical. No blame. No guilt. Just clarity. I finally understood why things felt tense — and what to do instead.”

“I didn’t realize how much of my stress came from trying to manage my adult child instead of relating to them. This webinar completely changed how I show up — and our conversations are already calmer.”

“Catherine explains things in a way that feels safe and practical. No blame. No guilt. Just clarity. I finally understood why things felt tense — and what to do instead.”


Catherine Hickem has spent over four decades helping parents navigate the transition no one prepares you for — the shift from raising children to relating to adults.
She has worked with thousands of parents who love their children deeply, yet feel confused, discouraged, or afraid of damaging the relationship despite their best intentions.
Catherine’s approach is calm, compassionate, and practical. She focuses on helping parents:
Reduce conflict without withdrawing
Communicate without fixing or controlling
Rebuild trust after years of tension or distance
Show up with clarity and confidence in emotionally charged moments
Just a clear, relationship-safe way forward.
Licensed Clinical Social Worker · 40+ years of real-world experience
Conversations feel tense or surface-level
One wrong word turns into a fight or shutdown
You feel like you’re walking on eggshells
You’re trying to help — but it keeps backfiring
You worry you’re slowly losing the relationship
This doesn’t mean you failed.
It means you’re parenting in a season no one prepared you for.

They struggle because the parenting role never evolved.
What worked when your child was young — guiding, correcting, protecting — can quietly damage trust once they’re adults.
Many parents stay in Manager Mode:
Offering advice that wasn’t asked for
Trying to fix problems that aren’t theirs to fix
Carrying responsibility that no longer belongs to them
Adult children experience this as pressure — even when intentions are good.
So they pull back.
Not because they don’t love you — but because the relationship no longer feels emotionally safe.

Defensiveness goes down
Conversations feel calmer
Trust begins to rebuild
Connection becomes possible again

Why adult children shut down — even in loving families

The role shift that lowers tension and defensiveness

What to say (and what to stop saying) to protect

What to say (and what to stop saying) to protect

How to communicate without fixing, controlling, or lecturing

How to show up with calm, clarity, and confidenceFont
You want quick fixes
You only want to change your child
You’re unwilling to self-reflect
You love your adult child deeply
You want more connection and less conflict
You feel unsure how to show up now
You don’t want to lose the relationship over time
Conversations feel lighter.
You’re not rehearsing every sentence.
Your child feels safer opening up.
You feel calm, grounded, and confident.
This isn’t about changing your child. It’s about becoming the parent you want to be in this season — with clarity instead of fear, and connection instead of regret.